would u befren a murderer?

if a person kills ten person, he is no doubt a murderer.
if a person kills two person, he would still be a murderer.

nono pple, i'm not telling u that you shud kill more coz no matter how many u kill u would still be a murderer.

twist the scenario and picture it like this.

one day u met a new fren.

the new fren is not exactly the best in the world but still not bad, can talk can click. In the end, u come to know that he/she has a particular character flaw that many cant stand.
Would u still befren her?

Illustrating it thru the murderer eg would be too extreme but wat if the flaw is indeed she/he murder? What can/will u do. What if you had spend a considerable time together and had become buddies.

my point is seriously why bother. why bother cos

first- the eg is so extreme. It might just be her digging her nose in public, love to fart and let u smell or bloody critical of stuff, or simply love to gossip n bitch.

second- she has played her role as ur fren well enuff to let u 2 become buddies. much as she might be mean to others, cruel to others, she is nice to u and that's what it matters.

third - she didnt kill u and wun intend to. (or hurt u) even if she did, she might feel sorry after that. and wat more if she used to kill ten, now she drop to two so there's a sign of improvement.

okiez, till now many might still not get wat i'm tryin to drive at. What i'm trying to say is..

often, i think we shud look beyond what we see. A murderer is no doubt wrong in his killing but we shudnt deny him of his other roles say a good husband, a good fren.

Likewise, a person with a particular flaw has his/her strong points. Turn your back towards her bad points and look at the real her. Often, you would make amazing discoveries and tat's wat matters truly.

discover one's good!